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How to make sure your partner can find everything

If you handle the household admin, your partner may not know where anything is. Here’s how to share the picture — simply — so either of you can step in.

Last updated 10 July 2026

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Here’s an uncomfortable test: could your partner find your insurance policy, list your pensions, and pay the council tax if you were out of action for a month? For most couples, not easily. It’s worth fixing.

What to share

  1. 1
    A list of what existsAccounts and providers — bank, pensions, insurers, utilities, subscriptions. People fear unknown accounts most.
  2. 2
    Where the documents arePassports, policies, deeds, the will — where to find them, not the contents.
  3. 3
    The important datesRenewals and payments, so nothing lapses while one of you is stepping in.
  4. 4
    Who to contactGP, solicitor, key providers — so your partner isn’t starting from scratch.
Watch out. Share where to find things, not the secrets. Don’t write down passwords or full account numbers — a pointer is enough and far safer. For logins, use a password manager with trusted-emergency access.

Make it visible, keep it current

Tip. A record only helps if your partner can actually reach it and it’s up to date. One shared, private place you both maintain — like the DueOwl app — beats a binder only you know about, or a document that goes stale the day after you write it.

In short

If you hold the household admin, make sure your partner could find and handle everything: keep a shared record of what exists, where documents are, the key dates, and who to contact — pointers, never passwords. Keep it somewhere you both can reach and up to date, so either of you can step in.

Frequently asked questions

Why does it matter if only one of us handles the admin?

Because if that person is ill, away or worse, the other can’t find the documents, doesn’t know which accounts exist, and can’t keep things running. Sharing where everything is removes that single point of failure — during a crisis or just a busy week.

Should I share passwords with my partner?

Record where to find things, not the secrets themselves — e.g. ‘the folder in the drawer’, ‘the app on my phone’. For actual logins, a reputable password manager with a trusted-emergency-access feature is safer than writing them down. Never store full account numbers or passwords in plain sight.

What should the shared record include?

A list of accounts and providers (bank, pensions, insurers, utilities), where key documents are kept, important renewal and payment dates, and who to contact. The goal is that your partner could find and handle anything without you.

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